I love Spring! It showcases a beautiful world coming to life again. I planted some new varieties of flowers in our front yard this year. When I checked on everything after our trip to Arizona I noticed something peculiar. Two flower plants are growing right next to each other. One is growing well and blooming brightly; the other is still struggling to take root in the soil. I paused to reflect on what makes the difference. I prepared the soil just the same and both get the same amount of water and sunlight, yet one struggles and one thrives. I reflected on my children and how they are like those flowers. Sometimes they thrive and other times we face daily, weekly, and sometimes never-ending struggles with them. They are great kids, and yet each one has a unique set of challenges–mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. They are each different and, like the flowers, one “right” way may not be what each of them needs to thrive. That makes parenting the greatest challenge and adventure ever! I can’t make the struggling flower thrive any more than I can make a child get over whatever he or she struggles with. I can seek to understand why and nurture though. Nurturing–it is a glorious mix of gentle words, loving touch, unhurried time, and individualized prayer. Isn’t it funny that as I looked at the plant I realized I needed to pray more specifically for my children? I felt the sudden impression that my Father in Heaven is just waiting to lead me, guide me, walk beside me, and help me nurture my little ones in their unique needs. There’s a reason most gardening is done on our knees!